The 28-year-old actress is in the news again – for much of the same bizarre behavior as in the past – and people are having a field day over her misfortunes, making fun of a young woman who, despite her relative fame and fortune, is obviously not well and in some kind of distress.
A Twitter observer poignantly observed a striking difference on social media.
The Tweet was originally posted by TheSmallestWaffle @SmallestWaffle:
“If you cried about Robin Williams and you’re laughing about Amanda Bynes, check yourself. Mental illness isn’t a spectator sport.”
When we think back to the recent tragedy of the loss of one of comedy’s greats, Robin Williams, there seems a general consensus of compassion. One doesn’t have to go too far to see all of the outcries of love and loss at the news of Williams’ passing. Perhaps because Mr. Williams isn’t alive to be held up to ridicule is why there isn’t the same sentiment that you’ll find towards Bynes.
And, when we harken back to the very public meltdown of Brittany Spears, we see a similar trend. Personally, I was never a fan of Spears but, when she was doing all of those ‘crazy’ things and everyone was making light of her situation, it occurred to me that that wasn’t right. As much as I despise pop music and culture, I realized that Spears’ pain was very real and felt compassion towards her. You see, I am a person with mental illness. I can only imagine what that would be like, being in the public’s eye and having every painful and embarrassing aspect of my illness unfold for all to see – and make fun of.
So, why is it that we relish so much to see someone – especially a celebrity – fall from grace?
There’s an actual term for this social phenomenon: schadenfreude, which describes taking pleasure in someone else’s failure, especially when theirs is an exceptionally big fall from grace, such as that of a public figure, i.e. celebrity.
Amanda Bynes: A Timeline
In the past, Amanda Bynes had been spiraling out of control with a series of drug-related arrests and accounts of seriously bizarre behavior.
First, there were several cases of driving under the influence, one during which she had actually struck a Los Angeles County sheriff’s patrol car in 2012. Then, last year, Bynes had received psychiatric treatment after authorities said she set a small fire in the driveway of a California home.
Bynes later entered a rehab facility and was released after a long stay in treatment. Once out of rehab, Bynes deleted her controversial tweets from last year, which included some vulgar messages and nearly nude pictures. In 2013, after months of rehab and therapy Bynes appeared to be on her way to recovery. Since then her parents have been caring for her, and she has been spotted taking fashion design courses at the Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising.
We can only guess that Bynes has stopped taking her psychiatric medication and is suffering another psychotic break.
Over the weekend, she was placed under an involuntary psychiatric hold shortly after landing at Los Angeles International Airport; a series of erratic tweets and questionable behavior in New York City prompted her parents and friends to be concerned for her safety. It’s the second hospitalization in the past two years for Bynes.
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Nationally rates from heroin overdoses increased by over 50% in a decade, and recent polls suggest that this trend is still on the rise. While the overdose rates do vary from state to state, there is still a great amount of concern because the problem does not seem to be solving itself anytime soon. With a lot of reform being considered concerning drug policies in the United States, and more programs being put into effects to address the overdose epidemic, there is a lot of information that insists we keep on working to change this trend.
The rapid rise in heroin overdose deaths follows nearly 2 decades of increasing drug overdose deaths in the United States, primarily driven by OPR drug overdoses. In this author’s home state of Ohio, the number of heroin deaths increased approximately 300% from 2007 to 2012! Mortality data for the entire United States shows a 45% increase in heroin deaths from 2010 to 2011, the largest annual percentage increase since 1999.
According to a review done by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, heroin overdose death rates in the United States are currently on a drastic rise. Rates were taken from a review of 28 states that showed statistically significant increases for both males and females, all age groups, all census regions, and all but one ethnic group. Showing that the increase exists in several different environments and areas, not discriminate to one or the other.
While the distribution of the study closely matches the U.S. population by age, sex, and race or ethnicity, the findings are not necessarily nationally representative. So they do not necessarily cover the U.S. in its entirety. However, all the available data shows that heroin deaths rose nationally from 2010-2011. The review found that the death rate from heroin overdoses doubled during that time frame, from 1 to 2.1 deaths per 100,000 people.
The increasing death rate from heroin also is consistent with the 74% increase in the number of current heroin users among people who are as young as 12 years old and up in the United States during 2009–2012.
Contributions of Opiate Abuse
Death rates from overdosing on prescription opioid pain relievers (OPR) fell from 6 to 5.6 deaths per 100,000 from 2010 to 2012, after quadrupling from 1999 to 2010. This includes the medications that contain:
But despite this slight drop, the CDC said years of over-prescription of painkillers has led to the recent surge in street heroin deaths. Nationally OPR death rates from 2010 to 2011 were stable (5.4 per 100,000), and there was even a recent small decline in OPR overdose mortality, which is encouraging given its steep increase during 1999–2010. But that does not mean efforts should not be made to further improve.
The rapid rise in heroin overdose deaths follows nearly two decades of increasing drug overdose deaths in the United States, primarily driven by prescription painkiller drug overdoses.
In a sample survey of heroin users in drug addiction treatment programs, 75% who started using heroin after the year 2000 stated that they first abused prescription opiates, as powerful painkillers that produce a similar effect on the user. These addicts who were surveyed said heroin was easier to get, it was a cheaper alternative, and that it is actually a more potent and similar high compared to prescription narcotics.
The study concluded through this statistic another notable distinction in the growing and evolving heroin issue. When looking at this number in comparison with the numbers among the individuals who began use heroin back in the 1960’s there can be a lot of credit to the growing overdose rate to OPR drugs. Well over 80% of the addicts who started using heroin in the 1960’s indicated that they initiated their abuse with heroin. So it is likely that many addicts who now use heroin may have not ever gotten that far without prescription painkillers.
Continuous efforts to prevent a further increase of the number of OPR users who might use heroin when it is available should be kept alive and striving to make an impact on this trend, because the more people who are exposed to opiate abuse, the more that number of average heroin users will rise, which of course will have an impact on the overdose rates.
These findings indicate a serious need for a step up in all prevention efforts intended for reducing overdose deaths from all types of opiates, while simultaneously recognizing the demographic differences between the heroin and OPR-using populations, and actively pursuing means of treatment and raising awareness of the dangers of drug abuse and the stigma that imprisons most addicts. If you or someone you love is struggling with substance abuse or addiction, please call toll-free 1-800-777-9588
Have you ever felt weird, different, terminally unique? I, for one, have – and do on more than one occasion. In fact, I used to be convinced that I was an alien from another planet and sometimes I’d stand out in the back yard, looking up towards the night sky and imagine the Mother Ship coming back for me to take me home.
Now, admittedly, this was something I’d do in the days of my active addiction, when I began to feel completely broken, desperate, and miserable. But, even when I was growing up – and before the drugs and alcohol – I felt somehow different.
Female stereotypes – that we’re supposed to be emotional and full of all the feels – definitely contributed a great deal to my perceptions that something was wrong with me. I seriously thought I was emotionally broken.
If you’re like me, these 13 things unemotional women understand will probably be something with which you can identify.
1. You’ve been accused of being heartless
Just because your first instinct to something serious or life changing an extreme outpouring of emotions. Tears, of sadness or joy, are a rare thing for you. You probably internalize things so that you can properly process and understand them.
2. People (usually other women) accuse you of ‘trying to be one of the guys’
This is based on the assumption that your lack of sensitivity is an attempt at trying to appeal and seem more attractive to the opposite sex (if that’s what you’re into).
3. Proclamations of love and displays of affection are your personal hell
Ugh…there’s nothing worse, or more awkward, than romantic gestures hurled in your direction. Amirite, ladies of my kind? You’ve never been very eloquent when it comes to expressing how you feel, and emotional, heartfelt compliments kind of make you cringe.
4. You feel like you suck at comforting others…
And it makes you silently hate yourself. You often wish you knew the perfect thing to say in order to make your friends and loved ones feel better but you usually feel like you fall short of the mark.
5. Despite being unemotional, you’re actually good at talking to people
You’re not shy or antisocial. It’s just that you tend to keep your social interactions on a superficial level. You like people but, only at arms’ distance.
6. When you are feeling certain emotions, you distance yourself from others
It’s usually when you feel upset, sad, or hurt. Although most people find comfort being around others when they are experiencing these emotions, (and although part of you thinks you probably would too) you find it difficult to open up and therefore make yourself vulnerable.
7. People think you lack a filter
You tend to be blunt and to the point. When you care about someone, you believe it’s a sign of respect to be perfectly honest with them.
9. You’re probably a creative
Because you have a hard time verbally expressing yourself to others, you probably find other, creative outlets, such as writing, drawing, painting, or physical activities. These outlets allow you to release the internal energies you’re struggling with.
10. If/when you finally do open up to others, you feel super-fragile
There are few things in life that terrify you as much as allowing someone in – to see your vulnerability – and desperately hoping they’ll still care about you.
11. You’re a ‘mama bear’
You’re usually the emotional protector of your friends, and even your own mother. Although you don’t let the opinions of others bother you, when it comes to someone saying something hurtful about your loved one, you are ready to attack; you’ll be damned if you let other people hurt the people you care about.
12. When you do care about someone or something, you’re all in
You’re ‘over the moon,’ as they say, and maybe a little irrational. For you, there isn’t a middle ground, which isn’t very healthy.
13. Secretly, you’re a hopeless romantic
You might not cry when movies tug at the heartstrings but, they actually do hit you right in the feels and, even though you claim to despise romantic comedies (aka ‘chick flicks’), you secretly love them for their stupid, completely unrealistic way they portray love.
IMPORTANT: Eventually, you will accept that you just aren’t the emotional type and that that’s perfectly OK. You can appreciate that everyone is just a little bit different and it has nothing to do with gender. Like everyone else out there, you’re a work in progress, but you’re not broken.
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Here’s a list of the 10 best contemporary novels about addiction. Check them out. Reading, writing, and taking some personal time in recovery isn’t necessarily isolating. Sometimes we all just need to recharge our batteries.
#1. Less Than Zero – Bret Easton Ellis
Written back in 1985, this was the critically-acclaimed first novel of then 21-year-old Ellis, who was still a student in college.
Clay, a rich young college student who’s come home to the decadent Los Angeles of the 1980s, reunites with friends and embarks on a series of drug-fueled nights of partying, during which he picks up various men and women for one-night stands.
Clay’s narration describes his growing alienation from the party scene, his loss of faith in his friends, and the apathy of his friends towards the suffering of one another and those around them: at one party, he watches as partygoers make light of heavy situations; for instance taking Polaroids of his friend, Muriel, while she shoots heroin.
Ellis was considered to be before his time, virtually inventing the likes of Paris Hilton and the Kardashians.
#2. Rule of the Bone – Russell Banks
Chapman (Chappie) Dorset is a 14-year-old kid who’s used to relying on himself to get by: Chappie sells drugs. Abused by his stepfather, Chappie decides to leave home and strike out on his own. After adopting the name Bone, he finds himself in various living situations—with a biker gang, squatting in an empty summer house and then living in a school bus with an illegal Jamaican immigrant. The two eventually head to Jamaica together.
Violent and disturbing in parts, Banks explores the themes of home, flight and family from the skewed perspective a narrator who is both innocent and criminally-minded. This contradiction raises pertinent questions: Is addiction something we’re born with? Are we the product of nature or nurture (or both)? Are there some situations that are completely inescapable? Indeed, there are no easy answers.
#3. Money – Martin Amis
Film director John Self is so weighed down by dealing with the day-to-day drama of trying to get his film made while living a double life: pursuing his hedonistic pleasures. Released in 1984, it’s become both a postmodern classic and a touchstone of the decadence and excess of the 80s. At its heart, though, Money is an addiction novel about a world where ‘more’ is never enough and possibly the only road to salvation is to lose everything.
#4. Party Girl – Anna David
Amelia is a celebrity journalist always looking for her big break, willing to do anything to make that happen. After a stint in rehab, she’s ready to say ‘no’ to alcohol and drugs but doesn’t feel the need to abandon her say ‘yes’ attitude, immediately accepting an assignment to cover what the publishers assume is her party-heavy lifestyle. At first, Amelia’s confident she can stay sober while recalling episodes of her former for ideas to produce, but soon finds herself caught in the middle of a ‘Who am I without alcohol or drugs’ identity crisis that pretty much any alcoholic or addict can identify with. In between active addiction and recovery, Amelia is hopeful, funny, frightened, and just trying not to mess up.
The novel deals with the common confusion of that post-rehab period, where many of us are just trying to navigate life without substances. It’s a rarely explored topic in addiction fiction but handled quite well in Party Girl.
#5. Rachel’s Holiday – Marian Keyes
Rachel wakes up to the realization that her roommate has called her parents, who insist that shes get on the next plane and head straight to rehab. Rachel’s ambivalence is on-point: she simultaneously realizes she needs help and yet wishes she didn’t. Someone who cleans up well and also has deep lifelong depression, which she realizes is at the heart of her addiction. Rachel’s thoughts while in rehab are poignant and relative to the experience we have when we come to terms with denial: Why did this happen to me? Is it my family’s fault? Will I ever date? Will I ever have friends? Will I ever be okay?
For anyone who’s ever worried they might be out of control and even more terrified to deal with that worry, this novel is made approachable through the humor and plucky courage of the main character.
#6. A Fan’s Notes – Frederick Exley
The story addresses the typical territory for the genre of the addiction novel: Mental institutions, rehab, figuring out what old family drama may have contributed to the current state of affairs. Life throughout the ‘50s and ‘60s involves football hero Frank Gifford and the author (the book is written as a memoir). He and Gifford were college classmates but, after graduation, Gifford enjoys celebrity on the football field while Exley is in the stands cheering him on. It becomes clear that in life, there are winners and there are losers. Exley – and every addict – asks “Why?” The familiarity of the struggle, regardless of the details, and the excellence of the writing, makes A Fan’s Notes compelling to read.
#7. Bright Lights, Big City – Jay McInerney
Sometimes the hardest part of sobriety is reminding yourself that the days of all-night partying weren’t really that awesome. McInerney’s main character has the self-awareness to know all is not well but not nearly enough of what it takes to do soemthing about it—except to push forward, perhaps subconsciously realizing that the only way to find relief is to hit rock bottom.
#8. In the Drink – Kate Christensen
The protagonist, Claudia Steiner, is the character we all know or have once been: The one ordering her fifth or sixth drink of the night while being fully aware it’s not helping anything, not really. The one who’s a little too self-aware for her own good, and who, realizes that being 29, single, and marginally unemployed is a condition that can’t last forever, only getting worse if she doesn’t do something about it.
#9. Trainspotting – Irvine Welsh
That’s right, Trainspotting was a novel before it was a movie. Focusing on a group of Scottish friends grappling with their relationship with heroin, the novel is surprisingly funny, interlacing cringe-worthy vignettes of the downsides of drug use with flashes of revelation and genuine despair. it does make one question how much of addiction is a result of being in the wrong place at the wrong time while showing how much society creates and perpetuates a culture where people are dependent on drugs.
#10. Wake Up, Sir! – Jonathan Ames
The narrator, Blair, is a 30-something writer who hasn’t written in years, experiencing a push-pull persona that many addicts are all too familiar with. After gaining a small fortune from a slip-and-fall accident and subsequent lawsuit, Blair hires a personal valet named Jeeves who helps him with his daily tasks, like waking up and reminding him to shave. It’s ridiculous and that’s the whole point. Alcoholism is the common thread throughout the novel and, as Jeeves reacts to Blair’s drunken scrapes with a nonchalant “Very good, Sir,” the reader can’t help but wonder whether Jeeves is really real or just the inner voice of an alcoholic in active denial.
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Public opinion on the disease of addiction is by far misinformed and widely unnoticed as an idea based on stigma and stereotypes. Just the word addiction often stirs the imagination of those who are unfamiliar with the illness to draw all types of conclusions based on everything from racial and cultural differences to things like appearance and upbringing, but most importantly are the assumptions made about the character of people in recovery from addiction. I Am Not Anonymous is a movement that is committed to breaking the stigma of addiction and substance abuse, and has gained a fair amount of momentum as it covers some ground to raise awareness.
The “I Am Not Anonymous” Mission Statement
The movement I AM Not Anonymous (IANA) has a website dedicated to showcasing featured portraits of people in recovery from substance abuse disorder and addiction, and along with their representation on social media site Facebook they have included a mission statement which reads:
“For years, those suffering from addiction have done so in silence as a result of the negative stigma surrounding it. The truth is, people DO recover. Our mission is to bring the SOLUTION into the conversation in hopes of helping the millions of people who remain untreated and help the world understand that addiction is not a moral failing. It is a powerful disease and the stigma associated with it is just as deadly as the disease itself.”
The site also features the inspiring accounts and experiences of all the individuals that have so far been featured on the site, including the personal stories of both the founders. Many of these stories carry a familiar message of hope and inspiration, and so far almost every quote or cliché you here at most Anonymous fellowships has been included in the stories, making it feel a little like that same intention of carrying the message is definitely still there somewhere.
Recovering heroin addict Tom Goris and his partner Kate Meyer who is a professional photographer are the two who put this new and innovative program together. Recently there was an story on the movement where the two founders gave interviews about their growing belief in the cause. Kate Meyer stated,
“Not only is it empowering people in recovery to share their stories and open up doors to help other people who are still sick and suffering, but it helps that person to feel like they’re not so alone and that there is hope.”
Tom Goris also made a personal point to talk about his story being his own inspiration to get the ball rolling on this, and what he feels it means to the recovery community.
“It gives and education, a message of hope, and says we’re not putting up with this stigma anymore, because this is who we really are.”
“I Am Not Anonymous” so far has not made any attempt to push any specifics about fellowships, or even come across too preaching in any extent. There is in fact a variety of opinions and outlooks expressed on their page which ranges in age, sex, race and length of sobriety. This diverse look at recovery through the stories and lives connected to some of the faces out of the billions in recovery in motivated simply to change the misconception. To take the sting out of the stigma by making it clear that the disease of addiction can touch any life anywhere. And that not every addict looks like what television and movies might show you.
Some people may be worried about IANA being associated with other fellowships, or might feel it is wrong to blatantly go against the point of anonymity in recovery, but at the end of the day these people are choosing to sacrifice their own anonymity for a cause they feel is worth the prices they pay. Breaking your own anonymity is up to you, some people may wonder if they would, or if they would rather hold out.
Either way with the growing concern in society about the dangers of addiction and epidemics of dangerous narcotics, this is one crusade that is sure to gain some attention. The disease of addiction claims too many lives out of the fear of stigma, too many addicts and alcoholics die because they are afraid of being judged, and they never get the help that is there and the solution they deserve. If you or someone you love is struggling with substance abuse or addiction, please call toll-free 1-800-777-9588