Comments on: Married To An Alcoholic Woman http://www.orchidrecoverycenter.com/blog/married-to-an-alcoholic-woman/ Alcohol and Drug Rehab for Women Thu, 17 May 2012 08:53:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Joey http://www.orchidrecoverycenter.com/blog/married-to-an-alcoholic-woman/#comment-166226 Joey Fri, 16 Sep 2011 02:58:06 +0000 http://www.orchidrecoverycenter.com/blog/?p=1768#comment-166226 My wife is an alcoholics. She has fooled many peiople for many year - except my maid, me, and few close friends - that don't want to be close anymore. Most people don't know about it. She is a master at drinking with other. Many know she has a drinking problem but, she can hide it until late in the evening or when she knows it is just me and her. We had a wonderful life that has slowly and quickly degraded. At first most thougt I was crazy when I told them what was going on - very few saw her 'mean and nasty' - she played the part of a well dressed and 'good friend' to woman - a woman bonding thing. We have not been close for years and she is content with the lifestyle i've given her since she can function durning the day and drink at night. I've lived in a 'nice prison' trying to hope things will change - they won't. She should be a politician because she doesn't have feelings and can be nice to people than cruel to me in a milisecond. I've got too many bad stories to tell. My male friends don't want to be around her - our female friends either give her a pass or don't believe me. Amyway - she is a very mean drunk and has no remose for her actions. As a Catholic this is very hard to take and made me stay in the marriage for obious reasons. God didn't intend for this to happen but, humans mess it up. My failth has kept me going but, I do need to protect my children. Children shouldn't see their mother drunk and overly affectionate - they are smarter than I am or give them credi tfor. Men of woman alcoholics hold a silent pain - trying to tough it out and seeing the woman they would die over hurt them and smash the pedistle they used to deserve to be on. It hurts more when other women tell me that I am foolish to waste my time with my wife because they would marry me and make me happy in a second. Tempting but, the devil can trick us all. thanks for listening. My wife is an alcoholics. She has fooled many peiople for many year - except my maid, me, and few close friends - that don’t want to be close anymore. Most people don’t know about it. She is a master at drinking with other. Many know she has a drinking problem but, she can hide it until late in the evening or when she knows it is just me and her. We had a wonderful life that has slowly and quickly degraded. At first most thougt I was crazy when I told them what was going on - very few saw her ‘mean and nasty’ - she played the part of a well dressed and ‘good friend’ to woman - a woman bonding thing. We have not been close for years and she is content with the lifestyle i’ve given her since she can function durning the day and drink at night. I’ve lived in a ‘nice prison’ trying to hope things will change - they won’t.
She should be a politician because she doesn’t have feelings and can be nice to people than cruel to me in a milisecond.

I’ve got too many bad stories to tell. My male friends don’t want to be around her - our female friends either give her a pass or don’t believe me.
Amyway - she is a very mean drunk and has no remose for her actions.
As a Catholic this is very hard to take and made me stay in the marriage for obious reasons. God didn’t intend for this to happen but, humans mess it up. My failth has kept me going but, I do need to protect my children. Children shouldn’t see their mother drunk and overly affectionate - they are smarter than I am or give them credi tfor.
Men of woman alcoholics hold a silent pain - trying to tough it out and seeing the woman they would die over hurt them and smash the pedistle they used to deserve to be on. It hurts more when other women tell me that I am foolish to waste my time with my wife because they would marry me and make me happy in a second. Tempting but, the devil can trick us all.
thanks for listening.

]]> By: paul http://www.orchidrecoverycenter.com/blog/married-to-an-alcoholic-woman/#comment-136689 paul Wed, 03 Aug 2011 06:17:55 +0000 http://www.orchidrecoverycenter.com/blog/?p=1768#comment-136689 I love my wife of 12 years, Sherri very much, but I have reached the breaking point. We nearly lost our children to protective services a few years ago. Last monday we went to a wedding and she got very drunk and her behavior was pathetic. I also think she may have been unfaithful. I hate to break up our home but I don't think she will ever recover from her addiction. I love my wife of 12 years, Sherri very much, but I have reached the breaking point. We nearly lost our children to protective services a few years ago. Last monday we went to a wedding and she got very drunk and her behavior was pathetic. I also think she may have been unfaithful. I hate to break up our home but I don’t think she will ever recover from her addiction.

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